A week ago I ticked over 100 days locked in chastity. I’m sorry that I didn’t share this sooner but this week has been the first week back at the gym and work since lockdown and life has gotten really busy again, really quickly.

Making it to 100 days feels amazing. It’s been quite an interesting journey and I don’t think I would have reached 100 without Sirs help to keep me motivated. It hasn’t always been enjoyable and there were times when I really wanted to take the cage off and my discipline was tested. It’s not really chastity though until you want to take it off.

Have my feelings about chastity changed since day 1?

My reasons for wearing the holy trainer and having a key holder haven’t changed. I still find that it makes sex for me more enjoyable and removes a lot of the anxiety I have about it. It definitely makes butt sex more enjoyable for me and lets me relax in to my sub role. Sir enjoys his status as my key holder and it’s still a strong symbol of my submission to him. I am noticing that my urge to Top has been getting stronger and stronger over the last month. There are quite a few twink butts that are looking mighty mighty good, but the benefits of staying locked are so gooooood that its making for some sweet, sweet, temptation, cage boners.

Physically the challenge of being caged for this amount of time has been greater than the mental challenge. My holy trainer has been uncomfortable lately. It’s getting scratchy and pinching because the cage itself has begun to bend and the joint has begun to loosen. I’m not suprised to be honest, the cage has worked very hard over the last three months. It’s still the most comfortable cage I have worn and I recommend it if you are thinking about getting a cage for yourself. I’ve ordered myself a new metal cage, hopefully it fits and arrives soon.

Sir’s reward for reaching 100 days was removing the cage while I served him and then jerking me off at the very end. I swear to science it. was. the. best. orgasm. of. my. life, so far! The kind of orgasm that stays in your toes and fingers even after you have caught your breath. After 100 days of ruined orgasms and milking the relief that washed over my body was incredible. If you can make it to 100 days yourself then you will understand what I mean.

Whats next?

At the end of the night Sir handed me three folded pieces of paper and asked me to pick one. They had 50 days, 100 days, and Sir chooses written on them. I picked the 100 days one… so here we go again.

Thanks for reading and as always feel free to ask questions or share your own story below.


LOCKED BOY DIARY – Some questions answered.

Some of you have had some great questions. Let’s take a look at what’s worked for me and what might work for you. If you’re still not sure or have concerns about a cage then speak to the manufacturer or your GP for any health concerns.

Do you find it easier to keep clean when your shaved vs not? Also I find I can get sore between my balls and my dick from the cage. It’s a small one so I’m thinking maybe it’s too small?

Firstly I tend to trim rather than shave. I find that if I shave, there is a risk of ingrown hairs and chaffing, especially under the cage. Neat and tidy seems to work best for me. If you shave you may also find you get quite a lot of itching as it grows back and that’s no good for chaffing if you’re constantly scratching around the cage. I use clippers such as the Manscaped Lawnmower 2.0. It’s perfect for me and it’s waterproof so I can trim in the shower.

As for the sore spot between the dick and balls, I found that this happened to me too with the Mancage and the CBT ranges. It’s because the tube doesn’t have a recess underneath it. Once I swapped to the Holy Trainer this problem disappeared almost immediately.

What happens if you start to get hard ? Is it then quite painful ?

If the cage fits properly then there shouldn’t be pain. It is usual for there to be some discomfort, that’s part of the attraction of having a cage on, but it should be an arousing discomfort not genuine pain. If it’s painful then take it off. I almost always wake up semi hard in the morning but the cage stops me from being able to jerk off or cum so I spend the morning in sweet ecstasy without relief.

Have you come across the brand “below the belt ” for your cock & balls ? Deodorant & Moisturiser….feels & smells & keeps the area dry but not tried with a cage.

No I haven’t but i’ll take a look. I use the ball toner and ball deodorant from Manscapped and they work a treat.

How do you know what size ring is right as I’m sure you can’t try them on before you buy?

If you wear cockrings then it should be the same size, as a general rule you should be able to fit your index finger comfortably between the cage and you balls. Go out and get yourself a cock ring and judge the size from that.

How comfortable are they wearing them with jeans or trousers or are they more suitable for wearing with shorts?

You can wear them with anything you like. Some days I don’t even feel like my holy trainer is on. Obviously it’s a little more crowded down there with the cage on so be sensible. You will know what feels good and what doesn’t. Some people enjoy the discomfort as a reminder that they have the cage on, while others prefer loose clothing.

What do you do if “Master” refuses to give you the key?

Your cage should always come with two sets of keys, even the padlocks you buy in a store will have two keys. Never give both of them to one person. Having a key holder is about trust, be sure that you know your key holder well and have clear rules and boundaries in place. The whole point of having a key holder is so that you can’t just take it off whenever you want.

Keep your key, freeze it in an ice block, lock it in a key safe, etc. so that it’s not easily available but accessible in an emergency.

Submission does not negate consent. If you no longer wish to be caged your Master must unlock you.

Any key Master who refuses to unlock you in a health emergency, or who breaches the terms of your lockup should immediately be booted and not seen again, they do not respect you.

Can you get it off in case of emergency?

Adult playground means adult consequences. Nothing is fool proof but if you keep your spare key in a safe place then you should be able to unlock yourself in an emergency.

How do you piss while locked?

All the cages I’ve seen have a hole for you to piss, it seems like it would be a pretty big design flaw if you couldn’t take piss. Mornings can be difficult if you need to wait for your semi to settle down first before going.