Reader question. How does one stop hating themselves?

“I’m a 24 year old gay black guy who’s constantly gets rejected online for hookups and dates. Sometimes I wish I was white because it’d make my life so much easier in many ways (I’m in the US btw) but mostly so that people would be attracted to me. How does one stop hating themselves?”


2 thoughts on “Reader question. How does one stop hating themselves?

  • December 10, 2016 at 12:46 pm

    You’re awesome Shannon! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this.

  • December 24, 2016 at 8:38 pm

    yea what he said.

    You have hit the nail on the head with that one.

    I have gotten to the stage where I can’t be bothered by the “community” and it’s attitude towards everyone including there own to the extent that I can’t be bothered taking part in it.

    as for accepting yourself, that takes times and it takes the realisation that everyone is beautiful just the way they are.


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