Until now the longest I’ve been locked up in my Holy Trainer has been 30 days. I’ve now beaten that record and I plan to keep going as long as I can. Since many people on my socials have been asking me questions about the experience I thought I’d give you a timeline of what the last month has been like.
Long term chastity is something that I have thought about quite a bit, but this is the first time that I’ve been in the headspace to keep going. A month seems to be about what my body can comfortably take so I’m being super careful as I push the limits further.
I have written about my reasons for wearing a Holy Trainer in previous posts, what I want to share today is what’s changed physically and mentally after a month locked up.
After a long break week one was a bit off a challenge. I had to make changes to my routine. My sleep and gym patterns were effected the most. My sleep was a little broken while I got used to wearing the cage again and waking up in the morning with a full bladder became tricky because trying to pee in the cage with a semi is difficult.
Gym workouts became slightly more uncomfortable as I readjusted to the chaffing. My clothes generally get looser and I have to make changes mostly to my leg workouts. I just have to accept that there are going to be challenges like pinching, chaffing and itching and deal with them immediately when they come up with quick trips to the bathroom to make adjustments.
Being back in the cage is horny too. Being semi most of the day isn’t easy and the temptation to give in during the first week is always high and my bulge looks menacing everywhere I go lol.
I always find week two to be the most difficult and the horniest. I’m used to jerking off at least once or twice a day so not being able to do it for two weeks generally has me climbing the walls. It’s also when things get really uncomfortable because by now any chaffing and rubbing is starting to wear out my patience even though it’s fading away. It’s not really chastity until you want to take the cage off so I keep going. They say it takes two weeks to form a habit and getting through the second week is difficult but worth it.
In week two I also notice a very obvious increase in my energy and productivity as I channel all the energy I was wasting on Pornhub and Twitter in to the Gym, work and other jobs that I need to get done.
In week three everything begins to settle down and I am glad that I stuck it out. My body and mind adjust to the new routine. Mornings are challenging as always. I wake up straining in the cage, I have to wait for everything to settle down and then pee, shower and get on with the day. By now I’m wearing loose undies when I workout and sleep naked because its more comfortable.
Week three is a great time to get things done, all the energy I was wasting on wanking and porn is now fully redirected in to my workouts and work. I’m in a total sub headspace and my interactions with Sir drive me to go even further. I get shit done and then move on to the next project. I’m horny but that energy keeps me moving. The chaffing has almost gone and I’m loving my new found discipline.
All the good stuff from week three carries through until around Thursday when I get horny as hell again. I start to loose focus and can’t control myself as I reach the “too much of a good thing” stage. Week four is the danger week when the temptation to be free is strongest. I’m humping furniture, doing dildo posts on Twitter and my content gets really dirty. It’s usually the posts from week four that get deleted in week five.
It’s also the week when I have to be really careful and make sure that I’m paying close attention to hygiene and making sure things don’t get out of hand down there. My dick has been locked up for almost a month at this stage and its super important to make sure everything is healthy. I start taking the cage of every 2 – 3 days at this point to make sure things are okay.
It’s also during week four that I begin to be able to cum hands free. I experienced my first ever anal orgasm at this stage and it’s well worth the weeks of abstinence leading up to it.
Unknown territory… I’m well and truly on my way to being locked longterm now but the desire to be free and fuck ass is strong. It’s usually around the start of week five that my headspace begins to flip and my dom streak starts to come out. Twink ass starts to look real good to me at this point. Where I go now I don’t really know but I’m looking forward to finding out.
What have I noticed physically over the last 5 weeks?
Physically there haven’t been many changes, chaffing is still an issue but I’ve got a good routine now and found a couple of good products that really work for me. Some guys talk about shrinking but that’s not been the case for me and I’m not in to using progressively smaller cages to shrink myself. Some other users of chastity cages have also told me that after a while they stopped getting hard. That hasn’t been the case for me at all, if anything I get hard more often, although it seems to go in a two week cycle at the moment. I’m also uncut so hygiene is especially important to me, other than some light sensitivity I haven’t noticed any increased discomfort or skin complaints.
All up i’d say my experience so far has been really fun and I’ve gotten exactly what I wanted out of it. I’m looking forward to trying for two months now.