What’s the deal with spanking? Not the good kind of spanking… you know spanking the monkey, but the kind of spanking that hurts?
Why do I keep getting requests from guys who want to spank me?
I once knew a guy who genuinely got off on spanking guys and a guy who used to ask me to spank him so hard I had to literally take a run up before swiping his bare cheeks with my shoe. What’s the attraction?
I have never really been a fan of pain which is why spanking and things like nipple play were never that enjoyable for me. Pain for me is like an off switch and so I have never been able to relate to guys who enjoy a good whack.
There are fantasies that can go hand in hand with spanking, caning and paddling. I have mates who get off on the coach, teacher and daddy role-plays. As a fan of bit of sub/Dom play I like the idea of the power play but when it comes down to it I just can’t get past the pain.
I’ve seen plenty of porn where guys are getting a ruby glow on their cheeks but I just don’t get in to it. I used to know a guy who got really aroused when he spanked me but I just couldn’t get in to it, I either had to be really drunk or really in to the mood and even then it ended up being a turn off.
I have been known to give myself the odd smack and I like it when my partner at the right moment gives my butt a firm slap but thats a far cry from spanking. When I see a guy with a hot bubble butt I either wanna fuck it or eat it, spanking it never even crosses my mind.
So I’m at a loss blog buddies and I need your help with this one. Have you ever been spanked? or been the one doing the spanking?
What’s the attraction and should I give it another go?
Who wants to volunteer? LOL.