GAY 101. What’s the deal with spanking?


What’s the deal with spanking? Not the good kind of spanking… you know spanking the monkey, but the kind of spanking that hurts?

Why do I keep getting requests from guys who want to spank me?

I once knew a guy who genuinely got off on spanking guys and a guy who used to ask me to spank him so hard I had to literally take a run up before swiping his bare cheeks with my shoe. What’s the attraction?

I have never really been a fan of pain which is why spanking and things like nipple play were never that enjoyable for me. Pain for me is like an off switch and so I have never been able to relate to guys who enjoy a good whack.

There are fantasies that can go hand in hand with spanking, caning and paddling. I have mates who get off on the coach, teacher and daddy role-plays. As a fan of bit of sub/Dom play I like the idea of the power play but when it comes down to it I just can’t get past the pain.

I’ve seen plenty of porn where guys are getting a ruby glow on their cheeks but I just don’t get in to it. I used to know a guy who got really aroused when he spanked me but I just couldn’t get in to it, I either had to be really drunk or really in to the mood and even then it ended up being a turn off.

I have been known to give myself the odd smack and I like it when my partner at the right moment gives my butt a firm slap but thats a far cry from spanking. When I see a guy with a hot bubble butt I either wanna fuck it or eat it, spanking it never even crosses my mind.

So I’m at a loss blog buddies and I need your help with this one. Have you ever been spanked? or been the one doing the spanking?

What’s the attraction and should I give it another go?

Who wants to volunteer? LOL.



5 thoughts on “GAY 101. What’s the deal with spanking?

  • March 21, 2015 at 5:17 pm

    Its a power exchange issue. Some guys love giving up their control. Some guys love taking control. Personally I like spanking a sub but what really turns me on is the sub wanting to give me the power to spank him. People often think Doms have all the power but the subs have to give it up for us to take it. The real fun is getting the sub to give you the power in the first place.

    • May 21, 2018 at 7:45 am

      It’s about fantasy. Succumbing to a strong masculine guy is extremely seductive. The spanking adds spice but for it to be truly sexy it can’t be about pain; it’s about affection, even love. The top disciplines the naughty bottom not out of a desire to hurt but to correct so it’s done with love. Along with the spanks there are also plenty of kisses, caresses and butt rubs!

  • March 30, 2021 at 12:48 pm

    It’s fun if you get the right person, I’d be glad to be a volunteer lol!!!


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