Five ways my sex life changed while locked in chastity.

I have never been locked in a chastity device before last month but I have been curious about it for some time. Obviously, it stops you from being able to jerk off but there were some other unexpected benefits to being caged.

  1. Butt sex got waaaaay more satisfying. I’m ninety percent bottom and completely removing my dick from sex had an interesting effect. My partners focussed their attention where I wanted it the most and I didn’t have to worry about the pressure of doing stuff that I didn’t really want or enjoy doing. I generally don’t get hard while I am getting fucked, my attention is wholly on my hole. Mostly I’m having a great time but a lot of Tops think if you’re not hard then you’re not enjoying it. They start to worry and then the energy drops. Seriously, if you’re a top and your bottom isn’t hard it doesn’t always mean they aren’t feeling what you’re doing back there. Taking my dick out of the equation helped everyone relax.
  2. There was no wondering over who was gonna put what where. When the lads at the bars or on Grindr discovered I was locked they knew exactly what they were gonna get or more accurately what I was gonna get. As a bottom, it completely cleared up any question about what I was after.
  3. I was DTF all the time! After a week of not being able to jerk off or cum I got toey, I mean really, really toey. The drool emoji very quickly jumped to the front of my most used.
  4. It made me highly suggestible and far more submissive. This was kind of the point of wearing it, to be honest. It fitted in well with my subspace and made sub play for me much more satisfying. It also seemed to connect me with more serious Doms who started to make contact with me after word got around that I was a locked boy.
  5. My use of poppers dropped dramatically. Okay, this was quite unexpected but really good. When using poppers the chastity cage became really painful as my balls tightened. On a couple of occasions, my nuts would slip up through the cage bringing a yelp of pain, the cage even fell off entirely one time. It sounds awful but the prospect of this along with my increased arousal, in general, meant that I reduced my huffing of poppers dramatically and that had some very serious health benefits. Click here to see some of the side effects of using poppers.

These five benefits are not the only ways in which my sex life over the past month became more satisfying and healthier and I’ll continue to share more of my experience of being locked in chastity. If you have any questions or experiences of your own then please share below. I’m interested to hear them.

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2 thoughts on “Five ways my sex life changed while locked in chastity.

  • May 29, 2019 at 12:23 pm

    Shannon babe, I have a question that you might be able to answer. If while wearing the cage what happens if you do start to get an erection or does the cage stop you from getting one completely? Loving the fact that you are enjoying the experience just as I am in hearing about your “Locked” experiences (I sense a book coming out soon Haahaa) Love and Peace babe XXX

  • June 3, 2019 at 9:22 am

    Will there be any chastity content in the members section? I find it very difficult to find chastity content online…


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