Are your dreams just a shopping list?

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If I was to ask the question what is your dream? How many people you know would give answers like,

I want to own a big house, I want to own a Ferrari, I want to buy a boat and so on?

How would you answer?

It seems to me that many people I know have dreams that resemble a shopping list rather than a happy life. The problem with building dreams around the things you want to own is that these things never last, they rot, break, wear out or go out of fashion. If you pinned measuring the success of your dream on owning those possessionsΒ then you are going to be left feeling unfullfilled when they are gone.

Instead of focussing on the possessions think a little deeper about what they represent. Owning a home might actually be about having stability in your life, getting that car might really be about gaining a sense of independence and freedom. It will be different for everybody and only you can really discover what things like cars and houses really represent.

One day I would like to ownΒ a home, but it’s not the physical bricks and mortar that are the dream. The real dream is sense of stability and a sense of security and that there will always be somewhere that I belong in the world. When that becomes the dream rather than the possession you suddenly realise that there are a multitude of ways to achieve it.

Whenever I chase a dream that focusses onΒ owning something I’m never really satisfied, there is always something new that I want. It leaves me feeling unfulfilled because the desire for the stuff in my life always fades away once I own it.

The dreams that I have found the most fulfilling in my life have all been the ones about enriching my mind, body and spirit, they are the ones which will bring me happiness and fulfilment. Things like helping people and making a difference, travelling and taking pictures. The leave me feeling content because even when my life changes I carry the experiences with me, they are part of who I am.

Seek the dreams in life that will enrich your spirit. Possessions come and go but real contentment comes from within.

 

 

4 thoughts on “Are your dreams just a shopping list?

  • May 6, 2015 at 11:17 pm
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    As long as I’m happy that’s all I ever want

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  • May 7, 2015 at 8:02 am
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    Shannon, again i agree its not about the physical things like the bricks & mortar they are materiel things. Once you have that roof over your head or friends that will help provide that then waking up everyday is a plus. Live each day sure make plans but remember dreams are just that dreams. You turn them into reality by living.

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  • May 7, 2015 at 11:08 am
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    Words of wisdom. You’re wonderful.

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  • May 7, 2015 at 2:42 pm
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    You’re an artist who has to spot the beautiful and capture it in an instant. I would expect your home would reflect that sensibility. If your house reflects a captured beauty, you might be dismissed by others as a materialist, but it is much more than that. It should reflect your personality and sense of taste. I live alone with my dogs in a large house. Though we essentially live in three rooms, every time I walk through the place and look around, I fall in love with it again. I don’t regret resisting the urge to downsize.

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