Last weekend I went to my first mixed fetish Party called Fantastic Abyss at Club 80 here in Melbourne. It’s the same venue that hosts the Gay Fetish party Trough. Both parties have a strict kink and fetish dress code but where Trough is exclusively for men Fantastic is inclusive and has a very different energy. I didn’t enjoy Trough, the atmosphere was highly predatory, drug addled and quite aggressive. Fantastic by comparison was chilled, inclusive and much more enjoyable.
The first thing that I noticed about Fantastic was just how many Girls were there. Even my girlfriends were surprised by how many girls were in the crowd looking stunning in leather, rubber and all kinds of other kink wear. I have to say I was in awe of them a little. It was quite a young crowd too which was refreshing. I’ve always stuck to Gay events for men but I immediately felt comfortable. While the Gay guys were eyeing each other off searching for their next fuck the girls and straight boys were dancing and playing and having fun. The two energies complimented each other, straight couples were fucking on the couches, gay guys were eating ass and fucking on the dance floor and I found myself soaking it all up and having a great time dancing away while my tail wagged behind me.
The Ladies love the puppies too hehe, most of the belly rubs and pats I got were from the Lady punters. It was so much fun to be able to Pup out without the sexual overtones that the Guy on Guy play brings and although my Pup headspace is highly sexual I found myself feeling relaxed and playful. They even had a fenced area for the Pups to play in with toys and mats to save our knees. This is one of the things that I really like about the Kink and Fetish scenes – there are always opportunities to push your boundaries and experience new things. It’s not a scene you should be afraid of and the people I have met in it are some of the nicest people I have met.
I have been disappointed by most Men only fetish events. They are always hyper sexual (which isn’t entirely awful), predatory verging on aggressive and full of boys just there to play dress ups. Fantastic was the first time I actually felt like I was there with a true fetish crowd. Perhaps it’s because my experience in the Kink scene is still very limited but I also think that having all that feminine energy there made the whole party much more relaxed and kept the focus on the kink rather than the sex.
So Fantastic Abyss was a great party and I really enjoyed myself. The music was great and the crowd was very chilled, I totally recommend going if you’re looking for a Fetish and Kink party thats outside of the usual Gay Party scene.
If you want to know more about Puppy play here are some posts that you might be interested in.